That's How I March 2024

Here's some of what I've been up to this past month!

Favorites

Middle School Band Concerts: A family member plays tenor saxophone in the school concert band AND the school jazz band. Last month there was a "Band Festival" with multiple school bands from our district getting together for an evening concert in the high school gym. There was also a regular school concert later in the month that was really nice. I adore that school families in our area are partaking in jazz together.

Drawing Class: I signed up for a 6-week class at the local art school. Every class gets harder as I learn more and more things that I can be looking for and doing in my drawings. I'm also trying to draw at least once a week on my own. Here is some of my work from class.





 


Consumed

Podcasts: After listening to Scamanda in February, I've been binging additional long narrative podcasts. The ideal "season" length for one of these in-depth stories is about 8 episodes. I do like ones about scams, like these:

  • Believe in Magic--this is about a mother-daughter pair who founded a non-profit to help sick children, but then probably used the funds to do things like travel to Disneyland
  • Filthy Ritual--bonkers tale of a woman who persuaded people to give her large amounts of money for shamanic purposes. If you have a problem, she'll take your money and nail it to a tree in the Amazon and then when your problem is solved you get all the money back. (Except... she didn't actually do any of that)
  • Unravel: Snow Ball--in this story a serial entrepreneur travels the world and persuades locals wherever to help her open a bar or restaurant, but then she does strange things with the accounting and then disappears. This one seemed a little more of a grey area--I wondered if the woman was maybe an alcoholic or drug addict who really was just terrible with people, money, memory, and math.
  • Who the Hell is Hamish?--This Australian psychopath travels around his own country as well as Canada, persuading various people to give him all of their life savings for non-existent investments. He's in prison now.

Rebecca: The 1940 psychological thriller directed by Alfred Hitchcock and based on the book by Daphne duMaurier has long been a favorite movie of mine. I think I may have first seen it when I was about 10 years old. But it's been MANY years since viewing it, and my spouse has never seen it. We finally got a copy to watch and spent the next 2+ hours enjoying Laurence Olivier being a grump and Joan Fontaine being jejune.

It Might Get Loud: This 2008 documentary features 3 guitar greats: Jimmy Page, The Edge, and Jack White. They sit around and talk about guitars and play guitars. The film also does a nice job tracing their musical lives from childhood and interviewing them in their home settings. I already have been forming a plan to bring all of my LPs out of the basement so the family can listen to them more often, and this movie seemed to be a sign that I should continue with this idea.

Least Favorite

Without getting into a lot of detail, I am sad to say that we lost our beloved orange car in the month of March. We are all fine--it was an insurance issue after what seemed to be a minor fender bender. Goodbye sweet car, we loved you so much. I have photos but can't bear to post them because looking at that cheerful little orange car hurts my feelings.

 

Phone Photos

I had a lovely lunch with a dear friend in the Vermont town of White River Junction. (THANK YOU dear friend if you are reading this!!) This Cherry Bomb collage was in a hallway outside the restaurant and it's pretty awesome.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

I decluttered 17 T-shirts that I have not worn in years. This United Auto Workers T-shirt is from when I was briefly a union member while working at a bookstore in Massachusetts.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

This T-shirt was from the 1990 Spring Tour by ARF ARF records. I was not at the tour--this was a hand-me-down from somebody else. It's pretty cool but it's stained and smells odd and obviously is about 35 years old, so I'm saying goodbye.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

EASTER!

February Days 2024

"The true secret of happiness lies in taking a genuine interest in all the details of daily life."

--William Morris

Let's continue checking in each month on what is UP! This time I'm looking back at February and covering some New Things, media that I consumed, and Favorites, plus photos.

New Things

StarDragon Oracle: Happy Year of the Dragon! I am interested in dragon energy. In the Western culture that I know, dragons are often villains. Think Smaug sitting steaming on his stolen hoard. The virgin-eating monster in "Dragonslayer." The poor dragon that St. George is always standing on. The creepy edges of old maps marked "Here be dragons." Dragons are sometimes called "worms," even though they are obviously much more sophisticated and magical (sorry, worms). Yet I think in other cultures dragons are powerful otherworldly entities that are not necessarily evil. Because I'm interested in exploring dragons this year, I ordered myself the StarDragons oracle cards by Paolo Barbieri. Here are two of the cards that I particularly like.

THE SELF: Gathering your power

MIRACLE: Making a difference


La La Land piano music: I recently re-watched the film La La Land and it's so good. It's a story of youth, love, Hollywood, music, ideals, and then what happens when your real life path unfolds. Actual life is not the same as what you dreamed, but it can still be okay. The music in La La Land is vivacious and catchy so I ordered the piano music to try it out for myself.

La La Land film music next to my beloved Joe Hisaishi film music
(the genius behind Studio Ghibli soundtracks)

 

Consumed

Maggie O'Farrell: I'm always on the hunt for novels that don't make me feel cringey or miserable along the way. I am tired of stories about people being mean or horrible situations or just dreadful, eye-rolling material. "Instructions for a Heat Wave" by Maggie O'Farrell was a great relief and I devoured the book over the course of a week. It's about a family in 70s London that has a specific issue and they get back together to hash it out. The writing also has lots of time-hops to give background on everybody. It reminded me of "The Corrections" by Jonathan Franzen, which I really like. (I wrote about The Corrections in my 2021 Reading roundup.)

Scamanda: This is an 8-episode investigative podcast about a California woman who started a blog about her cancer diagnosis and then began requesting and accepting donations to cover her enormous medical costs... except there's a major twist to the story. Most podcasts that I listen to are single episodes about a particular topic or an interview, so I got hooked on this long narrative arc that was really well done. You can listen to Scamanda here (or on your favorite podcast app). Since finishing Scamanda I've been on the hunt for similar long-form podcasts, and have listened to both "Behind the Magic" and "Filthy Ritual." (All 3 of these have British hosts with plummy accents that adds an extra level of goodness.)


Favorites

Sourdough: In 2023, a family member got into the idea of bread-baking and sourdough starter, and made a batch of starter named Joseph. Joseph still lives in our fridge, though that family member's baking interest waned somewhat. This past month I decided to feed Joseph and try baking some Rustic Sourdough loaves. They were not bad! I have a lot to learn about baking so I'm going to keep trying.



MassMOCA: Over school break, our family went back to the Massachusetts Museum of Contemporary Art (MassMOCA) in North Adams, Massachusetts. The Gunnar Schonbeck interactive music room and the James Turrell immersive light installations are still there (I wrote about them in this 2018 blog post, and we like to visit them every time we go).

section of wall painting in the Sol LeWitt retrospective

Just a few of the ready-to-play instruments in the Gunnar Schonbeck rooms

Photo of a photo in the Elle Perez "Intimacies" installation

"The Tarses Family Presents an Exit Sign Pointing to Another Exit Sign"

"Cosmic Latte" by Spencer Finch, one of my favorite spots

Ghost silhouette of old factory stairs (not part of the art... or is it?)

Museum cafe window view, with sculptures by Franz West in the background


Phone Photos

 
First snowdrops of the season were spotted blooming in early February (earliest ever that I can recall).
 

 
A boisterous lunch at a town cafe included listening to the album "Jeff Wayne's Musical War of the Worlds" to celebrate the 126th birthday of the HG Wells novel. This specific music is a major part of my childhood but I've never run across anybody else knowing what it is, so hearing it on a random Friday afternoon in Brattleboro was a mindblowing experience. (This photo shows the album on display in a plastic sleeve with a sign about the 126 year milestone in front of it, and a little flying saucer on a pendulum swinging on the shelf above it.)

January 2024: Let's catch up!

I'm trying a monthly round-up format here on the blog. For January 2024, I'll cover these categories: New Things, Favorites, Currents, and Photos. Let's do this!

New Things

January is my birthday month and I bought myself this single-volume 50th anniversary edition of The Lord of the Rings. Do you like my Aragorn bookmark? (I've had the bookmark for years--it's just been waiting for this book I think.) I like having the whole trilogy in one place, and this seems like a good quality paperback but also not too chunky or heavy. I've started reading it again.


I got a new divination deck called the Earth Alchemy Oracle, written by Katie-Jane Wright and illustrated by Nikki Strange. I love the interesting combinations on the cards and I find the keywords to be unusual and inspiring. I'm excited to explore!


I bought myself a pair of Oxford wingtip shoes that I'm planning to wear when the weather gets warmer, possible with no socks or tiny white socks. See below re: Bleachers.



Favorites

 
This month I have been soothed by the YouTube channel of HannahMartinRG. Hannah Martin is a professional ballerina who lives in England and posts a weekly vlog about her life--what she eats, what work is like, how she is trying to take care of both her body and mind, and how she spends devotional time with her Bible. It's not a particularly religious vlog but I like that she spends time each day on something spiritual. Overall I find Hannah's content to be very chill and she makes me feel calm and grounded.

The new video from Bleachers (Tiny Moves) blew my mind. It's hard to explain, but what happens in the video struck me as so raw and emotional. It's a simple premise and I don't want to spoil it, but I will warn you that you might want to buy a pair of Oxford shoes after checking it out.

On the dinner menu at home this month is cottage pie. This is basically like shepherd's pie but made with ground beef instead of lamb. I try to use a lot more mashed potato than meat mixture. I essentially follow this cottage pie recipe, but I also add about half a cup of frozen corn when making the meat part. It is stick-to-your-ribs warming and comforting on a winter's evening.

This pie contains 1 pound of beef, 2 russet potatoes & 3 Yukon gold potatoes

Currents

 
I'm currently reading Re-Sisters by Cosey Fanny Tutti. The author is one of the founders of industrial music and is still creating fascinating music and sounds. This book is about 3 different women and their experiences in trying to go their own way and being considered "uppity" (my word choice, not hers). She writes about herself (Cosey Fanny Tutti expressed herself through art, sound, and performance), about Delia Derbyshire (who worked in the BBC's Radiophonic Workshop for many years and basically created the Dr. Who theme), and about Margery Kempe (a 15th century mystic who behaved very strangely for her time and had all kinds of problems as a result). I find Cosey Fanny Tutti fascinating and have also listened to her be interviewed on several podcasts. She don't take no crap.

I went to see The Boy & the Heron this month, because I am a self-described "Ghibli-head." The director, Hayao Miyazaki, says this is his last film, and apparently there are many messages or call-backs hidden into the film. It was rather inscrutable and got increasingly complex as it went on--it's like a poem of a film that needs to be re-viewed and re-considered to really dig into the meaning more. Earlier in the month I rewatched my favorite Miyazaki film, Spirited Away, which is still completely wonderful.

Phone Photos

 

My co-workers gave me food to celebrate my birthday including this delicious bowl of steaming hot ramen.

 

My family spent an evening typing prompts into various AI generators. This one was, obviously, "Joe Biden riding a bear."

 

That's it for now! Tell me about your January in the comments?